Choosing your profile photo

Posted in adult dating, Dating tips and advice with tags , on April 17, 2010 by adultdatingza

Completing your profile properly is important if you are serious about finding a partner online. Many dating sites also offer automatic profile matching or recomended members features. These features rely on your profile being completed with acurate information. If you complete your profile well you will find not only will you get more interest from members but the results returned by automated matching software will also be more benifical. We have also included advice on your profile photo and approaching members. It is estimated you have a 60% better chance of a response if you have a photo, you need a photo to get the best from dating sites.
Your profile photo

Your photo is usually the most important aspect of your profile. Like it or not, this is where most members make their decision on whether they want to continue reading. If the photo is not appealing they will move on to the next member.Use a recent photo. There is little point deceiving potential partners, although you may get more interest this will ultimately lead to disappointment and possibly upset other members. If you must use an older photo make it clear within your profile that your photo is old. When selecting your photo choose one showing your complete face without hats, sunglasses or anything else obscuring your face. Avoid silly faces and group shots, try to pick a photo where you look relaxed and happy. Unless you are using an adult dating website try not to wear anything too risqué.
Completing your profile information

When completing your profile try to appear relaxed and fun but don’t ramble. Stick to the facts, your interests, likes/dislikes, age and if you think its relevant,  religion.  Be honest. For example, if you are a smoker, incude that.  Be open and honest and you will have a far greater chance of meeting someone you want a serious relationship with.

Getting dates

Your profile wont get you dates on its own. Make the first move. Dont wait for potential dates to contact you. If you see someone you think you will get on with introduce yourself. Start of with a polite message. Try to write something interesting, possibly commenting on a mutal interest (read their profile, dont just go on their looks, you might be surprised) or holiday destination etc.

More dating advice

What is different about adult dating sites

Posted in adult dating, Sex advice, sex personals with tags , , , , on January 17, 2010 by adultdatingza

The main difference between adult dating sites and traditional dating sites is that you can be clear an open about what you want and how you want it safe in teh knowledge that you are unlikely to offend other members, mainly because they are there for the same reasons – no strings sex and casual relationships. Most people who become members are open and honest about their own reasons for being on the site. Whether married, too busy for a serious relationship  or fresh out of a serious relationship these reasons vary. Members do not have to lie s to meet someone and get to bed with them, this is why most memebrs are there anyway, why pretend?  This honesty is is not always true on conventional dating sites where members are often married or hiding behind a false profile picture.

Most people on adult dating sites are usually pretty open about their sexuality and are wiling to be discrete about the relationships just like you are.

Gumtree ban adult personals

Posted in adult dating, Interesting with tags , on January 17, 2010 by adultdatingza

Gumtree have just announced they will no longer allow adult personal ads. This is due to customer complaints. Good news for Adult Dating ZA.

Why have they banned adult personals?

The system was being abused with thousands of fake ads and responses encouraging users to sign up for paid dating sites to contact non existent members. You can read the full story here

Women struggle with sex addiction too

Posted in Interesting, Sex advice with tags , on January 5, 2010 by adultdatingza

Women are just as likely as men to become addicted to sex. Some say its not a real addiction but many disagree. Check out the following video for yourself.

Server maintenance

Posted in Announcements, service status with tags , on December 31, 2009 by adultdatingza

We will be performing server maintenance on Jan 5th. We expect no problems, you may find you are unable to log in for up to half an hour. Please wait and try again in a bit  if this happens.